Pretender to be tough easily shifts to be weak I know one pretender to be tough. The person shifted to be weak after he/she lost own bluff. I thought about the difference between real confidence and bluff. Real confidence stands by our sides, but bluff is put on own faces. Real confidence makes us stronger. Bluff can make us both of stronger and weaker. In other words, real confidence is asset, but bluff is risk. The result of bluff will be better or worse than without bluff. (I don’t like such risk, so that I try not to use bluff.) I thought about below matrix. Result With Real confidence Without Real confidence With Bluff Middle Risk and High Return High Risk and Middle Return Without Bluff Low Risk and Middle Return Middle Risk and Low Return I don’t know this matrix is true, but not so far from true. Then I thought about another things, “Are there perfect method?” If I have real confidence and don’t use bluff, there ar...
2018/8/31 Why did I want success? I read one Medium blog , and realized the reason why I wanted success. Lack of confidence is it! Having confidence was/is difficult task for me. When I lost confidence , I wanted success. This is from some minds. 1 ) Revenge mind: to someone or something 2 ) Anger: to myself 3 ) Pride: I couldn ’ t admit my fault 4 ) Pride: I could do better Having these minds is normal action , but I was caught by them too much. I needed success for protecting my minds. But what is confidence? There are some answers , but I think it is something which makes people strong. If confidence is weak , people seems weak. So confidence may be relatively thing , not absolutely thing. And it is decided by relationship between people and people , or people and problems. Confidence is decided by power relationships. People who has strong confidence , may prefer to bury others. ( I don ’ t need such confidence. ) ...